Get Ready for Your End-of-Year Personal Retrospective
For the past few years I have been doing a personal year end retrospective. Its a fun and relaxing exercise to do over the holidays as you sip on a warm drink, enjoy the Christmas season, and prepare to kick things back into gear in the new year. Here are a sample list of questions that I have collected and use to carry out this exercise. I like to write down my answers to some of these so I can then go back and look at them next year. Some I just think through. You can do it solo or go through some of them with a good friend. (Lance - I will miss doing this with you this year!)
Looking Back...
- What is the greatest lesson you learned this year that you never want your kids to forget?
- How might you have behaved or acted differently in 2010 if you had to do it over again
- Looking back over the year what did you set out to do that you didn’t do and why?
- What key discipline did you live out this past year that had significant impact on your life? What was the impact?
- What are you most proud of this year?
- What was the biggest triumph this year?
- What were the key surprises (good or bad) that happened this year?
- Which relationship in your life grew this year and which regressed?
- If you could go back to the beginning of this year what piece of advice would you give yourself? Why?
- Looking back, what was the overarching theme for this year? / What one word best sums up your 2010 experience?
- What was the greatest lesson you learned in 2010?
- What was the most loving service you performed in 2010?
- What is your biggest piece of unfinished business in 2010?
- What are you most happy about completing in 2010?
- Who were the 3 people that had the greatest impact on your life in 2010?
- What was the biggest risk you took in 2010?
- What was I worrying about at this time last year, and how have things changed?
- What are my current allergies (emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically)?
- What compliments would you have liked to receive in 2010?
- What compliments would you like to have given in 2010?
- What was the smartest decision you made in 2010?
- What else do you need to do or say to be complete with 2010?
Looking Ahead...
- What would you like to be your biggest triumph in 2011?
- What advice would you like to give yourself in 2011?
- What is the major effort you are planning to improve your financial results in 2011?
- What would you be most happy about completing in 2011?
- What major indulgence are you willing to experience in 2011?
- What would you most lie to change about yourself in 2011?
- What are you looking forward to learning in 2011?
- What do you think your biggest risk will be in 2011?
- What about your work, are you most committed to changing and improving in 2011?
- How should I control/adjust my rhythm/pace in 2011?
- What is one as yet undeveloped talent you are willing to explore in 2011?
- What brings you the most joy and how are you going to do or have more of that in 2011?
- Who or what, other than yourself, are you most committed to loving and serving in 2011?
- What one word would you like to have as your theme for 2011?



